BDSM is far from being whacked with something. It’s a journey to find the limits, the expectations, the desires and it has to be a two way process.
We all of us have set limits and boundaries, by breaking these down little by little, a direction can be formed. The excitement is partly fuelled by opening up the chinks and cracks.
One may think that a gentler touch does not do it, but in reality, it can be explosive in itself, in the right context. Equally a firm grasp can make you gasp for air and stimulate the whole body. None of these things will be known until, you find direction.
A paddle across a firm buttock, need not be a flaying arm whack, but nothing to stop it building into such. No one knows until they have been there and back.
A perfectly normal conversation, combined with some restraint and some pain can turn a string of highly offensive words, into a orgasm like you have never known before, but equally can put others off.
Each movement, each word, provokes a response, it is the duty of a master to pick up on these tell tales signs and exploit them to the benefit of all.
Almost without fail, each time slave and i play, new crack opens, i would not be able to live up to my name if i were not to pick up on these and exploit each and everyone. So that next time we play, the experience will heighten, the journey continues.